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封面人物 Coverstory Mingdao Part 4 of 5 - 2005封面人物 Coverstory Mingdao Part 4 of 5 -2005 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhDJKCLvdjo Continuing the subject about his grandfather…   I received the phone call that night informing me that my grandfather had passed away on his way home from the hospital. The first thing that came to my mind was- “how could this be”? Then I asked the director, which road were we going to take on way back to Taipei later?  He asked me – Why do you ask?  You usually don’t bother to ask.  I just couldn’t speak out to tell him that I needed him to make a detour so that I get to see my grandfather.  Being an actor, you suit yourself in different scenario in a drama and when it really comes 烤肉食材to you, you don’t know how to handle it.  Especially in the location we were shooting WZBXW (Tian Yu’s home), there was always hundreds of people waiting, outside of the site, for one’s autograph or asking to be taken in a photo with me.  Once I was done shooting, I had to wave and sign autograph for the fans and take pictures with them while smiling. In addition, my mother’s car accident really scared me, scared of being too late to treat her nice and take her out, you know, scared that she will stay like that all the time. Host: What made you insist on traveling from work to the hospital to take care of your mother under such heavy physical stress? MD: When my mother was healthy, I didn’t feel anything special toward her, but when 烤肉I saw her in coma, lying on a hospital bed, I was so scared that she will never get well or she might stay like that, then everything I might do for her became meaningless, everything might be too late…It was the first time that I understood the meaning of “being too late” because it will be really “too late”, and I thought “can’t stay like that, need to do something”.  I had some savings, some of which that I plan to keep for myself for future plans and some to cover my family debt. After this incident, I asked my mother a list of her debts, which she provided and gave her all my savings to settle them.  I don’t need to keep much money with me since I am not a big spender…keeping enough money just to make me feel comfortable 居酒屋& safe.  Yet, I don’t want her to have any debts in mind just in case something bad were to happen.  She would know that at least, she is debt free. Host: You hope she could have been debt-free sooner? MD: Yes, so I ask her to take all my savings to settle all the debts. Host: So, “it is OK with you. (means paying debts for family) MD: Do you mean money? Host: Yes. MD: Yes, money doesn’t mean much to me, frankly speaking, I have never been rich before, I was involved in the vending business since childhood.  Sometimes, I look at a thousand dollar bill and think; this is what I sit here for a whole morning for, just for a piece of paper!  Host: You doubt the value of “money” MD: Yes, money doesn’t mean too much to me. 酒肉朋友I need it for living, that’s it. Host: Yes, sometimes, money can’t exchange the health of your loving family members. Being a man with a great sense of responsibility to his family, also a premature character, this made him feel the need to settle down at a young age.   He admits that all the girls he had dated were older than him, he likes to say “sweet things” to his girlfriends and like to act like a big boy to them, he even proposed to his girlfriend twice while in University.  Nevertheless, breaking up a long distance relationship due to work started the rumors about his hurting himself after the breaking up. Host: When you were in University, you had a very passionate relationship with a girl. After breaking up, rumors 商務中心said you bumped into a pole and slit your wrist, MD: Here is the wound; does it look like bumping into a pole?  No, I was injured from a motorcycle accident. Host: Not because of breaking up with girl friend? MD: No. Basically, I’m a sane man Host: But you were deeply involved in the relationship you had while attending your University, right? You even proposed to her twice?  Why?  So desperate for getting married?  Are you avoiding something or just too much in love? MD: Avoiding?  What a good question. MD: Avoiding, yes, I guess so. Host: Avoiding what? MD: Well, you know I’m picas, too much imagination, and I’ve been very sweet! Too much sweet words and ingratiate girls! Host: Why you describe yourself like that? 小型辦公室MD: It is true, I can read girls’ mind and know what they might like to hear… It was fun at the beginning, maybe I was too young, but very soon, I found it was actually not fun at all!  Firstly, I was bored, secondly, I grow older. I said to my girl friend that I’ll love you forever”, how old was I? I was only 15, how could I say “forever”. Host: You can’t just make promise; you have to be responsible for what you say. MD: Yes, and sometimes, I said things when I was angry such as “otherwise, let’s get married.” Host: So, that is your solution. You are lucky that your girl didn’t say “yes”. MD: Yes, that’s when I cultivate the “self protection wall” for myself.  Because I know myself is stupid in a relationship, I have to 辦公室出租“pick” girl friends who are smart to balance myself. Host: So, you were fully aware that this girl would not agree with your proposal. MD: Kind of, I really know how to pick right person to love. Host: Most of your relationships are with older girls, right? MD: Yes, in my generation, it is common; I found 8 out of 10 of my friends are dating older girls. Host: So as you? MD: All of my four girl friends were older than me. Host: What advantage do you get from such relationships? MD: First, I can act like a boy without any consideration. Host: You do like that, right? MD: Yes, that takes a major part of my life; it is the way I relax myself. Secondly, older girls can teach me a lot of things. Host: There is rumor that you dated a co-worker in MXW 宜蘭民宿(The king of adventure) MD: That is … Host: Friend? MD: You know, Cindy is the one who has kept the longest distance with me among all the girls that I know. Host: Cindy Wang. MD: Right, about 20 cm.  She dislikes getting too close to people.  Maybe keep a 1 Meter distance. We became familiar with each other later on, so I can stand by her within 20cm distance.  Basically, I keep no distance with people I know. I learned one “skill” recently to play with people. I don’t know if I can play with you. Host: play childish? Did you invent it yourself? MD: Don’t get mad!  (Play with the host) Host: What’s so funny? MD: You can control that person and tickle him or her etc. Host: You are so bored, who taught you this! MD: Don’t 九份民宿remember. All my team members (in the drama) are girls except for the director, vice director, and an executive producer, I have been so close to all of them, but never been taken in pictures, so never got on press. Host: So, what are the criteria for your future other-half?   MD: Kind. Host: Is the one we read about in the press? MD: What do you mean by that? Host: You just mentioned that you have been closed to many teammates? MD: It’s possible; all my girl friends are my friends first. Recently I feel the importance of girls in my life become... Host: Less of a priority!  (MD nods his head)   - To be continued -  


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